Is having children the right and good choice in this modern world and times? What about the population of the world?

   Jesus said this to the daughters of Jerusalem before he died in the cross, “Daughters of Jerusalem, do not weep for Me, but weep for yourselves and for your children. For indeed the days are coming in which they will say, “Blessed are the barren, wombs that never bore, and breasts which never nursed!” (Luke 23: 28, 29)    And in other place He also said this, “Matthew 24: 19 But woe to those who are pregnant and to those who are nursing babies in those days!”

   If we deeply think about these, we realize that, or if we pray to God for understanding as we give our mind to understand these verses He will make us realize that they are deeply related. And it require us to enquire to Him for more understanding.

   And as we enquire we must read the previous and after verses. If we did we realize that He was talking of the troubles which will come before the end of the world.
   Then, do I mean the end of the world is coming?
   This will answer best,

   200yrs before, in 1804 there is only around one billion of population in this world but after 200yrs, in 20^th century, the population of the world jump to more than (1x6)six billions. And it is certain, that, if men continue to give birth in that rate the world will soon be overflowed with population of man. Yes, it is clear that if population continue to grow in that rate the world will be (6x6)36 billions in another 200yrs, and Just imagine how hard would the world of 36 billions of population be. And what if the world did not end but continue with increasing population?

   Over population will leads to economical and environmental destruction as it already begun. Though there may be many reason for price hike, but the strongest factor is nothing but population.

   It is because of population that the world lost its forest land which is a very important factor for climate and rivers. Yes, it leads to global warming.
   We can't stop price hike, global warming, etc. unless we stop populating and protect the environment and grow more trees. If we control population, we control the prices of goods and many other things.
   But if population continues to grow at this rate the forest land of the world would quickly be gone, likewise agricultural land would quickly be gone for residence and other purposes, prices will increase, etc., and that means surely environment and economic destruction.

   The world is like a glass and man like water. If water is continuously poured into a glass it would overflow, likewise, if birth continue to pour into this risky world the world would be overflowed with man if Nature don't intervene or make another way. And, if it is overflowed with man undoubtedly there would be an increase in crime, poverty and destruction which is beyond control as hunger and famine would sweep the world, for the production of agriculture would not be enough to supply all the need of the population and it would be too expensive for the average people.

   Therefore, there could be no peace but everyone fighting for their, stomach, survival and even the money, or richness of the rich will not have value, or will not save them, (therefore, now is the time for them to save  themselves and their children and money, so that wealth may continue to have value, by helping the poor and by putting their mind and money for the salvation of the world) And, there would be trouble between siblings, family and family, tribe and tribe, nation and nation fighting for survival, and one would like to terminate all the others for his survival, and destructive weapons could be employed which can even end the world.

   So, if we don't want to send our children in that place and time, if we really love our unborn children and want to save them from the future troubles there is reason not to give birth but make onself barren from now, for if we do not do now how can we do later after we have children.

   But, God would not allow the world to end in that way, by it's own hand. So, when He says it is time He will pour His Spirit to those who love truth, who open their heart to truth - who are willing to accept and live every of His commandments, who reform and prepare in Him - who is bornagain and He will finish, spreading His words, His work on earth and send His Son Jesus Christ to deliver His faithful children and establish His eternal kingdom.

   But, before that, before Jesus Christ come God's children, the followers of Jesus, who keep His commandments and the faith of Jesus (see Matthew 19: 16-21, Revelation 12: 17, 14:12) would have to flee as Jesus have said, “Matthew 24: 19 But woe to those who are pregnant and to those who are nursing babies in those days! 20 And pray that your flight may not be in winter or on the Sabbath.”

   Since, we don't know the time when we are going to flee, we must prepare from now by not being pragnant or having children. If we do not prepare by now how can we prepare when the time comes? How can the pragnant or nursing babies make themselves not pragnant or not nurse babies after they were already pragnant or nurse babies in that day?

   Therefore, it is certain that to be not pregnant and nurse babies in those days we must make ourselves barren from now, for, we know not the time when those days will come, but one thing we know is that we must prepare and be always ready for the great troubles of the world to come and the coming of our Blessed Saviour Jesus Christ.(Matthew 24: 44)

   Anyway, if we really love our unborn children we will not like or want to bring them in, in this hard and risky world, though we really desire to see them, where we can give no guarantee that they will overcome every temptation, or battle, that they will chose the path of Truth, even if we equip them with the best weapon, even if we teach them the greatest wisdom. Even God doesn't give us guarantee but wants the decision of man.

   But, we can give guarantee that our children will not go to hell if we do not bring them in in this risky world. That means we can save our children lives from eternal death.

   How can we say that we love our children if we send or put them in a risky, position, place? Can a parent who fear God who love their children send or put their children in risky place?
   The answer is easy and short, “No”

   Of course if we really love our unborn children we will not bring them in in this hard and risky world and send or put them to the great troubles to come where there will be woes for the pregnant and those who nurse babies.
   This is love, the action of love. Indeed, This is the deepest, or greatest love a mother or a father can do, or give to their yet unborn child, or children.

   We, human, just want to have children just because we ‘desire’ to see, hold, love and care them but that is not love, that is not because of loving them but ‘desire’.
   We must give up our desire to bring our children in in this world, for, it is to save their lives. By giving up our desire, the desire to have children, we can save them(our children).
   How can we call it love if we bring our children in, in this hard and risky world, just because we desire to see, hold and have them, how can we call it love if we put our children in a hard and risky place.
   Of course, as the world approach its end it will be harder and harder to live in this world until the great trials, troubles and tribulation comes as written in Matthew 24 and Revelation 16.

   If one have love, if one love his, born or unborn, children he will care and deeply consider their future and destiny, of course, not only the destiny of his children but his children’s children and so on, indeed, his generations to come,because every child born from ones children, or children’s children is his offspring and he must love and care for them and their future.
   Certainly, A generation, big or small, is born from one, indeed, all the nations of the world is born from one. Likewise, it is obvious, that, a huge multitude, a large generation can born from us.

   If one have love he would never want, his generation, his children, not even one to go to hell. And the best way, the only way to save them is not to have a single child. If we cannot give guarantee that our children will chose the path of truth even if we teach them the greatest wisdom how can we give guarantee of our children’s children, our offspring?
   Remember, God doesn’t want even one to perish.(Matthew 18: 6, 14)

   The destiny of our, children, generations, yes, the lives of, thousands, many lies in our hands now, in our decision and God wants our decision. Therefore, we should, take decision, not bring even one of our child in this risky, place, world.
   It's all about choice. To have children or not, to be among the woes in those days or not. Indeed, it's our choice.

   If we want to have children because we love, not because we desire to see and hold, them we will love and care them before they are born and consider the environment and their destiny, we will consider everything for them before we have them, before they are born, for, love is thoughtful, love is care, love consider, love is, selflessness, unselfishness, or unselfloveness. And if we deeply consider this world we will realize that it is not worthy place to bring our children in and we can't give any guarantee that they will follow the path of Truth till death.

   Therefore, it is a complete selfish, or selflove act and there is no love at all if one brings his child in in this, risky, dangerous world, after having great knowledge, without caring the future, or desitny of his children and their children(his offspring) to come but just because he desire to see, hold or have them.

   If saving lives is our responsibility in the Lord, this is true and sound in the Lord, that, making oneself barren by choice because of the love of our children and generations is an action of saving lives, many lives. indeed, it is an action of love.

   Of course, if we really love, other, to save other’s life we will not bring our children in in this world and we will also tell others not to bring their children in in this world to save their children’s life and we will spread the gospel and live and die for God. Yes, this is true love, the greatest actions of love.

   And, we are not in a time in which we can have children and be leisure around but to work diligently for God, for, the coming of our Blessed Saviour is near, very near. Remember, we are, really, in the last of the times.

   How can we call ourselves or be the children of God who is full of love, if we don’t pre consider the future of our children, if we don’t care them, if we don’t love, or have no love for our own children?

   When one have no children he have more time and resource for God to save other and their children who are orphan or not, to save the world.
    Yes, we must care the orphans, for, the true follower of Jesus must exceed the world in doing righteous act. Loving and looking after children or orphan children who need love and care like our children is a work, or mission of God.

   How can we call ourselves or be the followers of Jesus if we don’t love, or have no love for other like Him Our blessed Saviour Jesus Christ.
   The one who have no love for, or cannot love children like Jesus is not worthy to enter the Kingdom of God. (Matthew 25: 41.45)

   When one have no children he have less trouble and responsibility, and more time for God, he don’t have to worry, for the need of his children, for treasure to inherit to his children, he has the freedom to freely give his possession, or treasures, to help those who need help in the name of God, to support the spreading of the Gospel, to the Church for the glory of God.

   And, those who already have children must have no more children and must also teach their children not to have children but to love God and to love other and their children.
   If one have children after knowing this, he is the one who love his desires more than his children. Therefore, he is not worthy to follow Jesus unless he, repent and reform, is bornagain.

   If one says if God will, I will have children and if He doesn’t will I will not have. Then this will be appropriate for him to understand, Do we say ‘If God will, I will eat food and if He doesn’t will, I will not’ or do we say ‘If God will I will fast and if He doesn’t will, I will not fast’
   It's our choice.
   There are things which God trust us in our hands, which we must do as we will eg. Like to eat food or fast likewise to have children or not.
    Whether to eat food or not or to fast or not is depend upon our decision likewise whether to have children or not depends upon our decision. And we must take decision for good, for saving lives, for the glory of God.

   But, this doesn’t mean that, if God command us to eat or to do anything we have the privilege to disobey Him. We must obey whatever He command us, we must always have willingness, willingness to accept and live every of His word, and we must never lose that.
   And now, it is time not to have children but pray that our flight may not be in winter nor Sabbath, for, Jesus have warned us and the great tribulation is very near “Matthew 24: 19 But woe to those who are pregnant and to those who are nursing babies in those days! 20 And pray that your flight may not be in winter or on the Sabbath.”
   Luke 23: 28 But Jesus, turning to them, said, “Daughters of Jerusalem, do not weep for Me, but weep for yourselves and for your children. 29 For indeed the days are coming in which they will say, “Blessed are the barren, wombs that never bore, and breast which never nursed!” 

   Everyone may not be barren by birth, but on the days to come blessed will be the barren by birth and the barren by choice, no matter whether one is barren by birth or choice. The more blessed will be those who never defile themselves to woman nor lie but keep themselves completely holy for God.

   Decision taken to be barren to save lives is a decision of love.
   The decision which we take now decide our future and the future of our children or unborn children.

   How can we send our children to a place, where we ourselves feels hard to travel, where we can give no guarantee for ourselves, that, we will achieve or reached the Goal of the path of Truth, where our strength has no power except the Strength of God, where we sometimes or many times lose faith upon God.

   How can a father or mother who really love their children sends their children to the jungle in the dark night, where ghost, fairies, wolves or dangerous wild animals filled the land, to frighten them, tempt them away from the path of Truth, and eat or kill them before they reached The Cross, actually, the darkness is also enough to get lost.

   When we don’t bring our children in in this world, if we don’t give birth, we can give one firm guarantee that ‘they will not enter hell, or be burn in hell at all.
   But if we give birth, if we bring our children in in this world we can give no guarantee at all.

   The moment whoever accept these things love not only his child at the deepest but also is free from the danger of the prophecy told by Jesus “Matthew 24: 19 But woe to those who are pregnant and to those who are nursing babies in those days!”

   Remember if you really want children, in Jesus every children the age of your child are your children.

   Therefore it is certain that having children is not the right and good choice in this modern world and times.
   But, it's our choice, it's all about choice to be made.

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What is love? How to love?

   The love of God(or our love to God as God love us) which comes from, the heart, truthful heart which is from or the result of conscious decision is true love and others are mistaken as love but they are desire, thought, or intense thought. Yes, we human being married each other because we have natural desire, if we have no natural desire marriage would have no existence.

   And, the love of God resulted in loving fellowmen.

   Love which comes from the heart of conscious is willing and ready to sacrifice, peace, sympathy, forgive, recorrect, or reform, give freely, and aid, or help. Love, which comes from the heart of consciousness, resulted in action, good deeds, or act of righteous. And this love, this heart of love can be obtain, through practice in Jesus Christ, by overcoming one’s sinful heart in Jesus Christ and replacing it with, or establishing, His character, His love which He had lived and preached.

   Let us look at Jesus Christ, by reading and thinking, or concentrating about Him, who overcome, Evil, Satan not only in His heart but also in real, in the wilderness, towns and in the cross on earth which is the kingdom of Satan. And He rebuilt, the beauty of man, the love of God in man on earth which Satan has destroyed. And whoever accepts Him, Jesus Christ, is a new creation in Him, indeed, the love of God(which has nodiscrimination, which love even enemies, which is in Him(Jesus)) is newly created in him.
   Yes, He teaches us what is the love of God and, how we should respond God, how we should love God by teaching us in practical, by being an example for us, by sacrificing for us in the cross. Yes, Jesus is our lesson. He is love, He is the way to God, He is truth, He is life, and we must learn from Him.

   God declare His love to us through our Saviour Jesus Christ. He declare to us that He love us till death and even death will not win, defeat, or overcome His love, even death will not deter His love but His love will overcome death. Indeed, it does, Jesus is the proof. And His love for us will never pass though the heaven and earth will pass. Jesus Christ has told to us by words and, actions, sacrificing His life in the cross. “Matthew 5: 17 “Do not think that I came to destroy the Law or the Prophets. I did not come to destroy but to fulfill. 18 “For assuredly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, one jot or one tittle will by no means pass from the law till all is fulfilled.”
   We must live as Jesus Christ our Saviour live, and die, or sacrifice for God as He sacrifices. That is how we can also declare how much we love God. That is how we should response His love, the love of God.
   We know that Jesus Christ our Saviour obey God His Father and forgive His enemies, teach the words of God His Father and die, or sacrifice for Him, or sacrifice in Him(His Father) for the world.
   So we must forgive our enemies, teach the word of God and do good until death, until they also turn to God, who is our Father because of Jesus Christ our Saviour and sacrifice for Him, or in Him, for, Jesus Christ have forgiven us His enemies and in addition sacrifice for, us, His enemies to save us, so that we can turn to God and live with Him eternally. “Luke 6: 35 But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High. For he is kind to the unthankful and evil.”

   Because of Him our Saviour we can explain love, that is, love is sacrifice, love is peace, love is grace, love is forgiveness, love is obedience, love is teaching, love is free gift and aid, or help.
   Yes, love sacrifice, love harmonize, love sympathy, love forgive, love obey, love teach, love helps, love reform.

   Indeed, love is action, love is care and affection, of course, love is acts of righteousness. Love does adjust to other with love, yes, according to God.

   Love is a good, thought, attitude toward others, that is, everyone.

   Love is humble, love suffers and sacrifice on this earth and there will be no more suffering in the kingdom of God, and those whoever are worthy to enter and enter the kingdom of God are those who suffers and sacrifice for Him, God Our Father, and they will be called ‘who suffer and sacrifice for God’, for, they overcame by suffering and sacrificing for Him and they are and will be willing and ready to suffer and sacrifice for Him forever. But God will not allow to exist suffering nor allow them, His children, to suffer anymore, and it will not be possible for suffering to exist any more.

   Love has no discrimination, that is, love have no enemy, but only love is everything, truly, love is eternity, of course, Jesus is love and He is life, He is eternity. “John 14: 6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.””
   Yes, Jesus is the only way to God, the truth of God and the eternal life, for, He is love. And only form Him we heard, or know the way to God, the truth of God, eternal life. Only from Him we know what is love? What is the greatest action of love and how to love. From Him we know the word and love of God His Father who is our Father because of Him. “John 15: 13 Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.” “John 15: 15 No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you.”
   “Matthew 22: 37 Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 “This is the first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbour as yourself.’ 40 On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.”
   “Matthew 5: 39 But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. 40 If anyone wants to sue you and take away your tunic, let him have your cloak also. 41 And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away. 42 give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away. 43 You have heard that it was said, ‘You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy. 44 But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, 45 That you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. 46 For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47 And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so? 48 Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.”
   “Matthew 6: 1 Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise you have no reward from your Father in heaven.”
   “Luke 6: 31 And just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise.”
   “Luke 6: 35 But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High. For he is kind to the unthankful and evil. 36 Therefore be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful.”


   This(as written here) is the only way to love our fellowmen in Jesus, that is to care, to have sympathy, to forgive, etc. This is the only way to love God. This is the only path to God in Jesus, indeed, through Jesus love is the only way to God.
   This is how we must walk in the light, in the truth. This is how we must have fellowship with God.

   But not everyone who give his life for other will enter heaven. No everyone who love other will enter heaven, for even the lawless people sacrifice and love those who love them.
   But those who sacrifice ones life according to God, those who love according to God will go to heaven but by grace. Yes, those who sacrifice his life for God, those who Love God will enter heaven.
   This is how we must love God, by keeping His ten commandments. "John 14:15 If ye love me, keep my commandments."
   Those who are bornagain that is those keep the commandments of God and the faith of Jesus will enter His Kingdom. (Matthew 19: 16 - 21, John 3: 3, Revelation 12: 17, Revelation 14: 12)

   According to God, the greatest and most important action of love is to keep the greatest and most important commandments which Jesus have said, that is or means ‘to love God with all our heart, soul and mind’, and the second is loving other. And, that two is the Ten commandments of God. And, in that hangs, or that contains, the Ten Commandments of God, all the Law and the Prophets.
   If we love God with all our heart, soul and mind we will keep His commandments and the commandments of Jesus Christ who He sent, and also the word of His prophets including E. G. White, who He have sent, and also His prophet who He will send, or is going to send to us.
   Yes, the Ten commandments of God includes all the Law and the Prophets(which includes His prophet of the last of the time E. G. White and the one to come), for, they will no speak against it but according to it.
   “Matthew 22: 37 Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 “This is the first and great commandment.” 39 And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbour as yourself.’ 40 On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.”
   And whoever keeps the commandments of God really loves God.
   Yes, whoever keep the commandments of Jesus Christ which is written in Matthew 28: 19, 20, whoever make disciples and baptize and teach to keep the commandments of God, or tell, or preach the gospel of Jesus Christ truly loves God and Jesus Christ with all his heart, soul and mind, therefore, God and Jesus will love him and He, Jesus, will manifest to him, for, He have said so - “John 14: 21 He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves Me. And he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and manifest Myself to him.”

   Without love one is nothing but, love is not a parade, or display nor does it display. Love is not a play.
   “1 Corinthians 13: 1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal 2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.”
   “1 Corinthians 13: 4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 Does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 Does not rejoices in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease whether there is knowledge. It will vanish away.”

   If we love God with all our heart we will not do acts of righteousness before men but we will do it(for the glory of God) in secret, for, He command us through Jesus. And we will not say to other nor remember it so that it can be in secret. Yes, Jesus have command us, “Matthew 6: 1 Be careful not to do your 'acts of righteousness' before men, to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven. 2 Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. 3 But when you do a charitable deed, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4 that your charitable deed may be in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will Himself reward you openly. 5 And when you pray, you shall not be like the hypocrites. For they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. 6 But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.”
   This verses means a lot. So, let us pray for, understanding, wisdom of God, His Holy spirit and learn His word and concentrate.

   If we are to do acts of righteousness in secret husband and wife should also do their action, tender touch, like kissing, etc. in secret though they are not acts of righteousness but acts between married.
   If one display tender touch, or affection, or love in public or if one have an intention to parade, or display, his affection, his love it is disgusting in the eyes of God. A display of tender touch, or affection, or love in public is no more tender touch, or affection, or love(because, love cares, or love love everyone) but proudful or shameless act or thoughtless, exaggerating or unnecessary act.
   Married or unmarried who display their love intentionally or carelessly in public have received their reward and have no more reward from God except His punishment of proudful or shameless act or thoughtless, exaggerating or unnecessary act.

   Did not Married or unmarried have time at all to express or tell how much they love? Do they not marry because they love each other? Did not married couple have time as a husband or wife to tell their love to each other?

   Let us remember, Love works in time, love respond in time.
   And Love do not remember the, good deed, acts of righteousness which he have done.
   Love is not inconsiderate but consederateful, or thoughtful. Love, or those who have love think and care for not only loved ones but others, the people around, that includes even enemies. And they, who have love, also eat, the fruit, the blessing of love.
   Love is not thoughtless but thinks for far away and for everyone. Yes, love is not foolish, but wise, not limit but comprehensive and unfathomable.
   Love neglect no one at all, so, we must love God and love others – everyone – in the Him, for love is for all.
   If we are not to neglect, our brother or enemy, no one at all but love, then, how much should a married couple be careful in living a married life before, or among other, for, they must not love only each others but also care and love others in the Lord.
   If married care, yes, love others in the Lord as they love each other they would not perform acts(small or big) which exist between married couple, for, they care, yes, love others as much as themselves.
   But if they display or do before other, then, it would be abnormal, unrespectful or careless activity.

   So, if we love God and care and love other, the children of God, the follower of Jesus Christ would not do proudful and shameless act, or abnormal, unrespectful, thoughtless, or careless exaggerating, or over and unnecessary acts, like kissing in public, before other. If one display love, if one do such things it will even hurt more those who are lonely, if they are around.
   If it is to leave our husband, wife or loved one far away, handshake and bidding goodluck with hand is normal, or simple but good and respectful in public. Yes, the children of God, the follower of Jesus Christ must always do which is normal, or simple and good and respectful in the Lord. “Philippians 4: 8 Finally, brethren, what ever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy- meditate on these thing.”

   A true follower of Jesus, the children of, heaven, God would not imitate the acts of the children of the world, the follower of Satan, their sinful acts which grows worser and worser day by day as the world approach its end.
   If love does not neglect anyone then, it is certain that love love his home and the rest, it is certain that love loved not only loved ones but others and surely, even enemies for love is forgiveness. Love is to love everyone.
   Whoever cannot love his brother, or other, or enemies is not or cannot be a follower of Jesus Christ, for Jesus Christ is love and love is forgiveness. And, whoever cannot die, or sacrifice for God is not, or cannot be a follower of Jesus Christ at all but Satan, and his place is in hell.

   “Matthew 5: 46 For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47 And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so?”
   If one say I have love and cannot forgive what love would that be? Are not lawbreakers, or revenge taker also cannot forgive other? Or, if one says I have love but love only those who love him what difference does he have with lawbreakers, what difference does he have with animals?
   Those who cannot forgive have no love at all. He who have no sympathy, or good deeds, or acts of righteous have no love at all but he was or is just living a life which even lawbreakers or animals do.

   A strong man is proofed when he lift extra weight, or when he do extra work which a normal person cannot do.
   Likewise, whether one have love or not is proofed, love is proofed when one forgive while people is doing bad things upon him, when one forgive those who commit adultery, when one forgive his enemy, when one have sympathy upon those who are pitiful, when one help those who need help in the word of God or physical or financial support, when one spread the truth, the commandment of God and the gospel of Jesus Christ, which the people of the world cannot do.

   Therefore, love is when we do not retaliate, or take revenge, when we love our enemy, when we love evil person, when we love those who do mistakes and those who is cruel to us, when we forgive and pray for forgiveness of the sins of those who is bad upon us, love is when we sacrifice, for the Gospel, for God, yes, the greatest action of love is to give one whole life for the, work, glory of God, to give one’s life, to sacrifice for God. Love never say ‘I cannot forgive’ nor ‘I cannot work for God.’

   Therefore, those who already have divorce must also forgive each other and be married again.
   If one have the love of God he or she will forgive in the name of Jesus. And one should forgive in Jesus, whether he repent or not, as God have forgiven us even before we repent but while we are sinning because of Jesus Christ.
   If one is to love his enemies why should he or she not forgive his wife or her husband, why should he or she not love his wife or her husband even if she(his wife) or he sin, they are not even his or her enemy.
   Let us remember what Jesus said to Peter, He told him to forgive seventy times seven. (Matthew 18: 22)
   Lack of forgiveness is a great sin, it is because of the lack of love and this(lack of love) is the greatest sin. God will not forgive those who cannot forgive other in judgment day after He has forgiven us because of Jesus Christ our Blessed Saviour. Yes, God will not love those who cannot love Him and others as He loves us.

   Yes, that is how we must love, and what is love.
  
   So, even if we have nothing in this world but have love we will die rich, for, the grace of God in Jesus Chrsit will be upon us and eternal life and eternal things will awaits us.

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Mistaken love.

   One can love anyone if he has the love of God. Of course we should love everyone in the Lord if we are the followers of Jesus, the children of God.

   But what is love, what is the love of God?

   Before we study what is love, the love of God let us first learn and understand one thing which we misunderstood as love, so that we can clearly understand love, the love of God.

   We misunderstood ‘like’ as ‘love’ or we mistook it as love when we like someone (because that someone is beautiful in our eyes or one like someone when one found someone beautiful) and really want to look or always look, really want to be with, touch, feel or marry that someone who is beautiful in our eyes.

   We mistakenly thought, we misunderstood, desire as love when our desire is so strong, when the desire to see, desire to be with, desire to touch, desire to feel, or marry is so strong.

   Desire is thought, a dominating and/or an intense thought, Yes, it, desire, comes by seeing, or knowing, or knowledge and contemplating, or thinking continuously or too much or deeply.

   One cannot desire something which he did not see or know, and one cannot desire something which he see or know if he did not contemplate, or think continuously or deeply.

   We human like someone and want to always see and be with, touch, feel or marry mainly because that someone is beautiful and because we have eyes (that recognize his/her beauty)which satisfy by beauty and, above all, because we have desires, of sex, which is natural. But we cannot call that likeness as love though we think that is love, though we mistook it as love.

   Because we have eyes we are attracted to beauty, for, beauty is the satisfaction of the eye. But natural desire (of sex) is the driving force behind the eye, which lead man/woman to desire beautiful woman/man, which leads us to desire or intense desire to see, be with, touch or possess/marry beauty - beautiful/handsome one. And, indeed, it lead us to marriage.

   If one did not have a natural desire, of sex, we will be attracted to beauty of man like we are attracted to the beauty of flowers or natures we will have no intense desire, or intense dominating thought for beauty which pressure, or impel us within, or from inside to see, be with, touch or possess/marry beautiful/handsome one, we will have no intense desire, or intense dominating thought to see, be with, touch or possess/marry beautiful/handsome one.

  And, we will not even think of marriage nor we would know what is marriage? Or the meaning of marriage. In short words, marriage is sex. Marriage of man in the Lord is the integration of two opposite sex to live together forever(if this life last forever) which includes sex. Indeed, sex is for marriage only according to God.

   Beauty is one of the attractor, but behind that, the greatest stimuli is the natural desire, of sex, excluding the love of God. Indeed, love stimulate, or motivate. Indeed, the greatest stimulation/motivation is love, the love of God.

   Because of desires(including sex desire) and because there is beauty there exist ‘“intense beautition, like-ness and desire(of beautiful/handsome one)” at first sight’ which we misunderstand as ‘“love” at first sight.’

   Indeed, that which we called ‘love at first sight’ was nothing but ‘intense beautition, intense like-ness and intense desire to be with, touch or possess/marry the beautiful/handsome one, which at times can’t be or difficult to describe because of its intensity and that is why we mistakenly named ‘love at first sight and also love.’ I would call that lave at first sight.

   Or, though we may call that ‘intense beautition, intense like-ness and intense desire of beauty at first sight’ as ‘love at first sight’ we do not understand that it is ‘intense beautition, intense liking and intense desire of beauty’, therefore, we should not call it ‘love at first sight or love’, I would call that lave not love. (What is love? The next article will explain, if God grant me life to add another article)

   Normal and also extreme or intense beautition, like-ness and desire(of beautiful/handsome one) comes out from us, from the seeer, or from the one who see, the beauty. Extreme or intense beautition, like-ness and desire(of beautiful/handsome one) comes when we see, or found beautiful/handsome one, when we find good, or perfect match of our eyes.

   When we find or meet good or perfect match of our eyes beautition comes up on its on and then likeness and then desire quickly follows.

   Yes, we are paused, or touch by beauty at first sight and also at sight, or we feel extremely(very) beautiful, extremely like and extremely desire only when we find, or meet the good, or perfect match of our eyes. Because our eyes is limited, it has its own choice of beauty.

   And that love of beauty which is not love but ‘intense/extreme beautition, like-ness and desire’ of beauty don’t last long, for, it is not love but ‘intense beautition, like-ness and desire’.

   Yes, when the beauty fade, or when other beauty or beautier is met or found some or many who do not possess love, the love of God rejected, or discard or may discard beauty(beautiful/handsome one) in one or another way like divorce, cruelty, adultery, etc.

   Beautition is not love. Beautition is when a person find someone beautiful/handsome and feel/think or accept that she/he is beautiful.handsome.

   Natural desire(of sex) is the most strongest stimuli except the love of God for, the love of God is the greatest of all things. ‘Because of beautition, like-ness and desires of beauty one want, or ‘desire’ a particular person to see and be with, touch and have sex or marry someone but, it is all because it(beautition, like-ness and desires) is back by natural desire(of sex). Yes, one desire to see and be with, touch and have sex or marry someone because he have strong natural desire(of sex), which back him up. But we misunderstand that ‘desire’ as ‘love’ like we misunderstand the combination of ‘beautition, likeness and desire(of beauty, sex, to see, be with, etc.’ as ‘love’, or lave as love.

   But that ‘desire’(desire to see, to be with, to care, etc.) which we sometimes or mostly misunderstand as ‘love’ doesn’t last long if that natural desire(of sex) fade. Or if that natural desire is not achieved, or fulfilled  and it resulted in divorce, or adultery, etc. Because, that desire is not love, it is not even a product, or result of love but a product of nature. And desire(of sex) is also not love, it is not even a product, or result of love but a product of nature.

   Likewise, beautition and likeness is not love.

   But, love from the deepest heart, the love of God will last forever. Really, if one have the love of God, if one love someone like Jesus, “love your enemies” “forgive seventy times seven” there will never exist divorce nor adultery, or any evil deeds. (Matthew 5: 44, 18: 21) For, if one love God he love his fellowman.

   But, beauty gives no guarantee. And desire is destruction without control, it leads to hell if uncontrolled.

   Beauty is one of the most important for who is not blind. But without the love of God beauty is nothing.

   The love of God is the most important of all, whether in married life or not, in life and last not only life time but, forever, eternity.

   One can look at beauty as much as one can, that is not sin, for example, One can look at the beauty of roses, scenery etc. and that is not sin.

   But when sinful things like adultery, covetousness, etc. fills, or enters the mind, one must repent and pray with faith, for, sinful thoughts are sins.

   “Lord, please, forgive me for I commit adultery, etc. , (but, since, Jesus has died before we are born, so, one should have faith that God had already forgave him, and say) thank you for forgiving me before I ask Your forgiveness, if it is Your will, please, take this sinful thought out of my mind and give me clean [mind] heart, sanctified me like Jesus{or, cleanse or purify me as clean as Jesus} but as you will, all this I pray in Jesus name, Amen” and try not to think sinful things but think about the love of God or other which is not sinful but according to God. And if one is tempted to think sinful things by seeing, or looking something he must take his eyes out of it.

   Beauty without the love of God, or a beautiful one who do not possess love, the love of God is, unprofitable or unbeneficial, worthless or rubbish, nothing but destruction, and temptation. Then, why seek beauty?

   But if we wish, we can seek beauty of our eyes as long as we are human and can see but only according to God.

   First seek those who have love, the love of God and then beauty of your eyes, for, it is written, “Matthew 22: 37 Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 “This is the first and great commandment.” 39 And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbour as yourself.’”

   If we really love God, if we love Him with all our heart, soul and mind we will not marry beauty of our eyes who have no love, the love of God but, we will marry only beauty who have love, the love of God.

   But if one find beauty among non or false believer and do not find among believer he should convince him or her to have the love of God and then marry, but if he or she refuse we are to chose the love of God than beauty which lack the love of God, we are to love God more than the world or its beauty.

   If one marry beauty of his eyes but who do not have love, the love of God he is sinning. It would be better for him to pluck his eyes out than sinning, marrying non or false believer, because of his eyes. “Matthew 5:  29 And if  thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell. 30 And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.”

   One must control his eye, his desire, everything in the Lord, for, it can lead us to hell. Without selfcontrol no one can follow God.

   If one can control himself or herself and willing to change to, willing to accept and live, whatever God have told or will tell, then, he or she will find all answer, yes, there is peace, or answer in willingness itself, for, if one is willing to accept and live every word of God he will accept any situation or circumstance and overcome in the Lord, he will follow every word of God without any complain. When one is not willing, when one cannot accept the word of God he cannot find answers , and his misunderstand and suffering is extreme.

  One must pray to God, “Lord, I sacrifice my desire to have a wife/husband to you, please, give us, give all those who need wife or husband, not what we like but what You like.”

   If one have faith in Him he will pray to Him and, work, seek who is beautiful in his eyes but who, is believer, have the love of God. And if he did not find among believer he/she will tell the word of God to the one, non or false believer, he like so that he/she can marry if the non or false believer accept and live the word of God. One should remember that, faith without work is death, and here or that is also where one must apply faith in God.

   Of course, we should apply faith in God in our work, in our everyday life, yes, we should always be, or we should live in the faith.

   Many times I am ‘“touch” by beauty at first sight', which we, sometimes, mistaken as '"love" at first sight.'

I cannot possess them all, so, its best to find a beautiful who have the love of God.

   Everyone ‘want’ beauty, and one thought they love, or one mistake that ‘want’ as ‘love’, but not everyone love beauty, for, everyone did not have the love of God, and when one did not have the love of God they spoils beauty.

   First of all Satan, spoil, destroy the beauty of man and earth, the love of man and earth, yes, the love of God which is in man and earth.

   The love of God comes form the heart and have no enemies, no limit, no discrimination, but for all. So, if one have the love of God he/she is peace to all, he/she love all, can live with all and will hurt or destroy no one.

   No one is ugly but beautiful in the eyes of love, in the eyes of God, for, He is love. Therefore, calling one’s, brother, fellowman ugly is sinful. Look at all those flowers they all are beautiful and they have their own beauty, its the eyes of man that separate, or distinguish, for, the eyes of man is limited. One is not ugly, but in the eyes of, man, someone one is beautiful and also ugly for another, likewise one is ugly in the eyes of someone and also beautiful for the eyes of another.

   But when we have love, the love of God we will never call our fellow man ugly instead we will be able to see how beautiful they are in the eyes of love, in the eyes of God, for, He is love.

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What is bornagain? You can be bornagain anytime and anywhere, and you must.

   According to Jesus bornagain is transformation, bornagain is reformation.

   Bornagain is death and resurrection, or rebirth in Jesus Christ. That means, bornagain is change, a total change - a total change of one’s idea, principle and one’s point of view, or attitude to the idea, principle and attitude of, Jesus Christ, a total change of thought and mindset to the thought and mindset of, Jesus Christ, a total change of one’s sinful heart to the loveful heart of, Jesus Christ.

It is a total change from one’s born character to the born character of, Jesus Christ, God, a total change of one’s life in Him.

   Jesus said to Nicodemus, "unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God" (John 3: 3)   But, what is bornagain? Jesus Himself had explained ‘what is bornagain?’

   He had explained how to see, or enter the kingdom of God. Yes, He had explained how to have, or inherit eternal life.

   To have, or inherit eternal life is to see, or enter the kingdom of God undoubtedly. So, “What should I do to inherit eternal life, means, what should I do to see the kingdom of God?”

   A man asked to Jesus, "What should I do to inherit eternal life?" Jesus answered, "Keep the commandments, sell what you have, give to the poor (leave everything) and follow Me." (Matthew 19: 16 – 21)

   Therefore, keeping the commandments of God, leaving the world behind(that means not to love the world in the heart for Jesus have not come today in physical to follow him) and following Him(spreading the gospel in character and words) is bornagain, that is how one can have, or inherit eternal life, that is how one can see the kingdom of God.

   Of course, Believing Jesus as our Saviour and repenting one’s sins to not to sin anymore and keeping his Commandments and, pursuing to resemble Him, following Him is bornagain. That is how we will inherit eternal life.

   Repentation is necessary to keeping the commandments of God. To keep the commandments of God one must repent his sins.

   But, what is sin(which one must repent)?

   The breaking of, the law, the commandments of God is sin, for, it is written, ‘by the law comes the knowledge of sin.’ (Romans 3: 20)

   How to follow Jesus?

   One cannot follow Jesus truly unless he believe and have faith in Him.
   To follow Jesus is to live and tell the truth, the love of God - the commandments of God and the gospel of Jesus Christ to other until we die, or sacrifice for Him who sacrifices for us.

   To follow Jesus one must believe Him first and have faith in Him. To have faith in Him is to keep His commandments. Yes, faith is action, having faith in Him is keeping the commandments of God and, following, Him.
   Of course, to follow Jesus one must keep the commandments of God, that is the Ten Commandments and all the teaching, or commandments of Jesus, which includes spreading His gospel, yes, this is one of His commandments.

   How can one be bornagain?

   To be bornagain one must be willing to accept and live every word of God, or one must have willingness to accept and live every word of God which He has given or will be given.

   One can be bornagain, or one is bornagain only when he, know, believe, see the love and grace of God in Jesus Christ and, know, realize he is a sinner and desires to change in Jesus Christ and pursue, keep changing to completely resemble Him.

   John 9: 41 Jesus said to them, “If you were blind, you would have no sin; but now you say, ‘we see.’ Therefore your sin remains.” 'we see' mean we are good, we are perfect or we have no sin.

   Unless, in Jesus Christ, one sees his sins and know, that, he is a sinner, and desire and decide to, change, transform, or bornagain and pursue to resemble Him there is no way to be bornagain but to remain sinning.

   Therefore, if one does not see his sin but want to see and be bornagain he should asked God - 'My Father, my Lord, make me see my sins, help me repent and reform me, give me bornagain...'

   So, One must be bornagain everyday, like Paul said, "I die everyday."
   One must see his sin everyday, for, sin always enters our heart, we commit adultery, murder, covet, proud etc. in the mind. And one must Pray, with faith that God has forgiven him even before he asked forgiveness, one must know faithless is also sin.
   ‘My Father, my Lord, please forgive me for I commit adultery, for I am proud, etc. now in my heart, thank you for forgiving me{ because He have forgiven us even before we born becasuse of Jesus} ... In Jesus name I pray Amen.
   Then, one must stop thinking evil things but pursue {to achieve the clean heart of Jesus} to have good thought, good attitude and character of Jesus Christ for the glory of God.

   Of course, one must always pursue to have good thinking, good attitude for the glory of God, to achieve the clean heart, or mind of Jesus. One must dominate his thought with good thoughts which is according to God. Thinking for family and others, thinking for what one should do or work for His glory, how one should spread His goodnews, how one should work in the Lord, thinking to find more examples, knowledge, or truth of everyday life and of God, thinking anything which is not against God but only according to Him and for His glory.

Of course, whatever one think and do, one must think and do for the glory of God. One should not be consumed by thinking but one should think, use his brain, or mind because of Him and for His glory.
   One must remember that, he must utilize his brain as much as he use his other body parts, for, God give us to utilize it, indeed, it is also the free gift of God.

   That is how one must die, bornagain everyday, anytime.

   That is, one must see his sin, ask forgiveness to God, thank Him for forgiving him even before he ask forgiveness and keep his heart, mind and action clean in the Lord like Jesus Christ.
Indeed, a bornagain person keep transforming to completely resemble Him.

One can be bornagain everywhere and anytime. Indeed, we must be bornagain anytime and everywhere.

God never force man to be bornagain, for, He is love and love never force. He wants the decision of Man.
So, one must take decision to be bornagain and be bornagain in Jesus.

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4. What is Spirit? Do Spirit Really Reborn/Reincarnate?

   If we are to born again or if we are to reborn or reincarnate it seems we must not exist or we must cease to exist. Or, get back to where we come from and come back again (from whatever), but that seems impossible if we are not growing (in reverse) back young.

    Many people talked about bornagain, rebirth or reincarnation. So the questions are, can man die and bornagain? What is bornagain? Is bornagain and reincarnation the same? Is reincarnation possible? Or, can a spirit that is in man be bornagain in another form? If so, what and where is the proof?
   There may be many acclaimed proof for reincarnation, but, do we really proof that the acclaim proofs are proof or do the acclaimed proof is at the standard of proof?
   To know whether bornagain, rebirth or reincarnation is possible or not we have to find the truth. Indeed, to know about something accurately, we have to find the truth. We have to remember that.
   And, to find the truth whether bornagain, rebirth or reincarnation is possible or not we have to find out, do man have Spirit? If man have spirit, what is spirit? Or, what is spirit that is in man? And, where do the spirit go after death?

   Really, to find or to know the answers of the above questions we have to find the truth about man and spirit that is in him.

   But, before we search the truth, first of all, we should know that ‘Truth can be explained and proofed’. And, always remember that, and you will never be wrong.
   And, in our search of truth, we should not be easily influenced or convinced by whatever we hear or found but ask or seek for the proof, so that, we can know what we believe are true and they are worthy of believing. And, so that, we can take decision according to our choice whether to believe the truth firmly or against it by having or holding another belief against the truth.
   When we find the truth we should realize it is all our choice, whether to believe the truth or not.

   A man is compose of two things – spirit and body. And, that’s true, because, when the spirit is no more in him, he dies. If spirit does not exist then why did not the body alone live? This so prove that spirit does exist.
   Yes, it is certain that there is another element that is apart from the body that make the body alive as man. And that element which is apart from the body is called spirit. Indeed, we called it spirit.
   That is why, we all believe a man is alive because a spirit is in him or as long as a spirit is in him but he die when a spirit is no more in him. That is true, and this is the real or true proof –

   Look at a dead man and you will see he is death because the spirit is no more in him, but 'what is the spirit?' comes a question.
   The spirit that was in man was nothing but breath. Of couse, observe a dead man and you will see, dead man never breathe. When he was alive he breathes but when he die he do not breathe anymore. That’s all because breath is the spirit of man.
   Indeed, a man is death because the 'spirit' is no more in him, and that means, in other words, a man is death because the 'breath' is no more in him.

   You can proof it right now that, breath( which is 'air' in other word) is the spirit of man. How?
   Close my nose and mouth, that means, give me no air, and I will immediately die (but only if God will) when the breath or air that is within me is used up, because the breath or air that my body need for living is no more supplied to my body. That's for example. Don't do it to yourself too, for it would be suicide and God may not save you because He don't like suicider because He don't want us to commit suicide at all including homicide.
   That is why when people hang themselves or are hanged, they die of suffocation.
   Therefore it is certain that breath, that means, air is the spirit of man.
   And, it is certain that the spirit of man or in other words the air, which is in the space, which is the spirit of man, can never be bornagain, reborn or reincarnate.

   Remember, the air is neither living nor death.

   We also know that, doctors use to pump the chest of man to bring back his breath when he is unconscious and not breathing, because they want to save him, give him back life if they can. Indeed, they do that to give him back life or bring life back to him by bringing back or giving him the air he really need.
   If breath or air is no spirit of man, there will be no use of pumping the chase of an unconscious and not breathing man, nor will he die even if he don’t breathe at all. Therefore, it is certain and unarguable that 'breath' which means 'air' is the spirit of man. One may also see how man is created in the first chapter, 'Genesis' of the Bible.

   Therefore, the spirit of man, that is, the air goes back to the space when a man die.
   Indeed, a man is totally compose of two element – earth and air. And, when a man die the two element gradually separate one another by decomposing.
   Since a man is completely compose of two element – earth and air – they gradually goes back to their original state (earth and air) when a man die. You can proof that again by digging out a man’s grave after some month, you will neither see body nor water.
   One may argue water also compose a man, but, water is compose of air. Therefore, a man is totally compose of earth and air.

   If that is so, if there is no reincarnation, rebirth or bornagain, what is bornagain which Jesus Christ, who is known by many as the Son of God and prophet who really is the only begotten Son of God that came on earth from Heaven, talked about?
   This question is asked because bornagain, which Jesus talked about was different from rebirth or reincarnation which many believe and explain as physical rebirth. But, now, we know the above has explained and proved that physical rebirth/reincarnation does not exist and can never exist because spirit is nothing else but air, which can never reborn/reincarnate at all in any other form or body.

   But, then, if air is the spirit of man, then, what is the spirit that claims to be a death man’s spirit? The answer of this question will also be posted in time, but only when God says so.

   What is bornagain will be the next article, if God continues to grant me life.

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Day of luck. What day is today?

Today is a lucky day for me.

Because day of luck is lucky day.

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When it's my birthday,

It's a lucky day for me.

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When I can go to sleep,

It's a lucky day for me.

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When I have a good dream,

It's a good night for me, indeed, a lucky night.

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When I wake up,

It's a lucky day for me.

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When I go to the market and find a good product( vegetables, clothes, electronic, etc.) of what I need/seek,

It's a lucky day for me.

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Today, I am healthy,

So, it's a lucky day for me.

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When I am not healthy but still alive,

It's still a lucky day for me.

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And, if I die in the Lord,
It will be a lucky day for me.

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and more, and more, and more......................

I believe, you realize your lucky day or day of luck.

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Have a nice day,

Have a lucky day.

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