How Man and Woman are Equal and Should Rule Equally According to The Holy Lord God?

   A husband can do nothing against his wife (and vice versa), because The Holy Lord God never give a woman to be under control of a man. He made her only for a partner (to respect and agree to one another), who is called a wife in human language, (Genesis 2: 24). And, since He took out one part(rib) from a man's body and made a woman, it's clear that a man cannot do anything against his own body which has separate life just as he do. And that means they have to agree to one another to do whatever they wish. 

   For example, a law or judgment has to be made but if one of them disagree there is no law or judgment, even if it is made it is void. It is not just example but should be applied if or whenever such time where a law or judgment needs to be made comes in their real life.
  The difference between man and woman may be in physical body strength but they have equal heart, soul and mind, and man is not necessarily stronger in them but determined woman can be stronger in them, such is their equality.

   Also, The Holy Lord God does not make a man to have all the rights and power over the earth. In fact He equally gave the rights and power to both of them man and woman, 50% each out of 100% when He told them to dominate the world, and that means, The Holy Lord God made man and woman (men and women/humans) to be the lords of the earth. (Genesis 1: 28, 29) 

   That also means that, man(men) and woman(women) should rule the world together with equal rights and power, and not one of them should be higher but to agree to one another and rule.
   Therefore, no one(man/woman) has any percent of rights or power over the other(woman/man). The husband cannot even touch his wife if she disagree needless to say that he cannot strike her with his hand or using any other means. That also means he cannot mentally torture her at all by any means. And, vice versa. Learn and talk it out.

   So, as we have explained above a married couple, each of them have fifty percents out of hundred of rights and power over everything which is under their hands, including child/ren, property/ies and salary/ries/income, etc. since they are one flesh says the Holy Lord God. For example, would you let one of your feet wear a shoe but give nothing to the other foot, or you give to both of your feet a pair of shoes? (that is two fifty/ fifty fifty).

   Couple (Man and Woman) Serves the Assembly as One

   As we know the rights and power of man and woman is equal, any servant (which is known as president,../prime minister,.../chief minister, minister../and any other related office(like district town or whatever) in a corrupt political government upon which the Devil reign) appointed to serve the assembly as servant cannot serve the assembly without his wife/her husband. Both of them have to give their voices in every issue that arise for them solve, and if their voices cross it is void. And so will it be the same with all the other servants who are appointed to serve the assembly.

   If there is an unmarried appointed servant among the servants of the assembly, the assembly as a whole should look for his match for his wife (as they should do to any other unmarried within the assembly who want to get married), no matter whether it takes to look for it in other independent assemblies of the same type or other type of assembly (which is defined in the following chapter - Golv).

   If the unmarried appointed servant would not want to get married, his voice is count without the need of a partner/spouse. Yet, it is in the assembly’s decision on whether an unmarried one should be selected to be among the appointed servants before selection begins.

   ***This is how The Holy Lord God is going to bring His Will, "Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts." Zechariah 4: 6***

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Woman: The Body of Man and Head of Nature

   It is often heard one saying, 'a man is the head of a woman,' since it was added in the Scripture. And it is often mistaken and misused by many men, that ended up in boasting and practicing lordship over women.
   To end such unwanted things, misunderstanding and mistreatment, we have to ask and find the answer of this question, 'If a man is the head of a woman, what is the woman to a man?'

   You already knew the answer, don't you? 'A woman is the body of a man!'
   Do a man ever say to his body, which is below it, 'you are below my head, so you don't need clothes. be naked?'
   Or, do he ever say, 'since, you body is below my head, let me give you 10 whippings, or 100 kicks?' lol

   Should the body also say, 'you, head, is nothing without me so I better not care for you?'
   Or, do she ever say, 'I better cut you off?' lol

   Remember, the head cannot live without the body, so the body cannot live without the head. They both obeys or serves one another for the benefits of them both.

   Therefore, instead of saying and doing those foolish things to the body, the head care for the body so tenderly. Wrapped it with warm clothes when it feels cold, keep it open or in a shade when it feels warm. Feed it with food when it feels hunger, wash it when it is dirty and so many more goes.
   The head gives freedom to be as it wants to the body, and not only that but does as it wants and also thinks/work for the benefits of it (the body) which is the benefit of itself!

   That is how a man, the head of a woman, should do to, obey or serve a woman, the body of a man in Truth, in the Lord. For, God, the head of humans, also do to His body - humans - the body of God.
   He answers our prayers though, no matter, how much we sins against him.
   He love the world so much that He feeds the world in all ways, from rain to harvesting. Since He love humans so much that He has appointed and made Two Anointed and Saviours who are also the Two Witnesses of the world, to save all creations but if all creations trust Him through them, the Two..

   The body (woman) is more wise than the head, for she is humble, thus she never say nor do foolish things to the head (man). While men often boast themselves over the body (woman) - who they can't live nor exist without, in fact.
   As the body do also obeys the head (words/thoughts of the head) or serve it for the head and itself, fulfilling what the head and the body wanted: wrapping, cooling, feeding, bathing, etc. a woman should also serve a man in Truth, in the Lord.

   To clearly define, here it goes: A man is the head of a woman, Saviour Anointed/Jesus Christ is the head of a man, God is the head of Jesus Christ.
   (A woman is the head of nature.)
   The body of God is Jesus Christ, the body of Jesus Christ is man, the body of a man is a woman.
   (the body of a woman is nature.)

   Now, since, the incomplete Scripture which Paul has written is made complete, let us learn to love one another and not boast over and not consider any one of us are higher than the other (as the head and the body never do) but equal: to serve one another for good.

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The Woman Who Knows Not the End of the Path She Followed

   This is a story that begins in the years of mystery (also known as riddle or puzzle that can only be solved with the book of life which is uniconnected with The Authority Above) after the years of miracle (also known as wonder or prodigy which is the body of The Authority Above) long gone. In it is the tools of widespread interconnection, and if the people of the past saw it they would wonder at it as the people of of the years of mystery wondered at the past works and ended up building theories on them.
   There was a general, a son of a rich man and a princess, a daughter of a rich man. When the general came in contact with the woman, the daughter of a rich man, she was a princess in his eyes and as a man of taste he liked her beauty at that moment. But he appeared to her as one of the way of important officers in public that is as normal or common man.

   When they began the beginning in the beginning they laughed the chat they had but there seems to be some seriousness inside the joke: sharing their feelings or opinion to one another through informal conversation. But the general was cautious from the beginning in order to stop the princess from desiring him as he made himself known to her. It seems their choices were alike and both were honest, and according to the words the princess had shared in their informal conversations the general poured out part of his heart, 'I want you, do you want me too.'
   'Yes, I do,' the princess smiled.

   When the general realized his purposes he tried to pull back or stop his words from action and himself back. The authority above had placed a responsibility in his shoulder: to conquer the enemy and save and set free their armies who are prisoners of war in the land of the enemy. It was a dangerous task and there would be enough attacks or difficulties he had to suffer through.
   He realize if he continued with the woman he could go too far away from his mission that he may not be able to fulfill the task bestowed to him by the authority above him. He realized that if the princess had fall for him too deep she would also suffer a lot from it as he would have to leave her to complete the mission that was trusted to him.
   But at his attempted, the princess looked as if her wants of him increased, 'I won't cry because of a man.'
   'My purpose is greater than just a relationship, it is to save and set free many souls not only your's.' The general called her.
   The princess confided that she cried for him and the general, already falling for her said, 'Then, come and stay with me for a short period. But I will have to go away from you soon. If you want that I'm open for you because I want you too so much.'
   'Come and take me.'
   'The higher authority does not supply me for that, you have to come to me if you really want me.' The general wanted to know how much she wanted him too.
   'My parents allows me not,' comes the reply.

   The general fall for her in the beginning as he thought the princess really wanted him but when he inquired and look for her love to him he could not find any a thing, instead he found that she crossed her own words several times. He ended up thinking she was just playing dishonestly with him as he is old enough to know that love is seen in deeds. She had never liked nor gave good comments on his doings. He told her about it but she don't care a bite. He ended up asking to the higher authority for a power to live as he wish so that he can forget about the princess. That came true over and over again as he fall for the princess over and over again when the princess send him some token of kiss that last not.
   Then, again at that moves the princess seems to want him more, 'I wonder why I fall for you, who live far away and I've not seen?'
   'You will get many men as you are a beautiful princess.' Though the general had lose himself from falling for her he began to fall for her more again. He wanted her to understand about himself and that he cannot tie himself with her as he has a purpose to fulfill. 'Come to live with me for a time or more until I'm prepared to go out for war.'
   'I'll come, my life is in my will.' After that reply the princess never called back until the general asked her for a call.
   The reply was to worsen what the general had thought: that she played with him dishonestly, 'I'm going for another man. He is coming to take me.'
   The general then sent her a message explained, 'Is not honesty a great thing? Some people will offer themselves to you but do you know how long they mean? They could leave you again like your previous man after they had enough of you and find another one they wants. Is not it good that I'm honest with you and that you know how long you can stay with me? Yet, I do not tell you when it will end.'
   The princess don't care a bite and she went on with her love.
   The general wondered how she put a blame on her parents for not being able to come to him but no excuses were made to be with her new boy as his suspicion increased, 'she must have really played dishonestly with my heart and me.'
   And, yet, that was the end for a time being: the woman went away with her new love, the man went to the war.

   But years later, the general came back victorious and had gotten all that he needs, and princes and princesses in his sides including the title, 'prince' for him while the princess was single again as the general had warned her. The general felt foolish for her and the girl regretted when they know about each other again.
   For the princess regret to increase she reread all the latters that the general had sent her and realized the deep meaning which before she did not understand as she was just simply reading them without deep consideration of thoughts and endless desires. She wanted to come in contact with the general again, called him and talked to him.
   'I will slap you first and if you wanted to cry, cry in my open arms,' comes the reply as he decided to meet her up again, his old short term girl.

   Being victorious the general went to various places as he was now granted and supplied by the higher authority, he also went even to the princess and the palace where she lived.
   When they meet each other face to face, few inches in between for the first time, the princess said, 'Take me, I wanted to be with you. I'm so sorry that I didn't chose and came to you that time.'
   The general slapped her with love, he gave her a slap of love, 'That's for what you have done to me.' 'Slap me too with love for my mistakes but remember I was opened and calling for you.'
   The princess cried and went to the open arms of the general the new prince, 'Please forgive me, I'm not the same girl anymore, I'm old now. But please take me as one of your beloved.'
   Being no more in need of anything else the general hold her arms on both side and pushed her further, 'I will take you if you want to serve me as my lowest servant, even as servant of servants.'

   At that words, the princess wiped her tears away, and being a proud girl, 'Never. I find many better men than you. Better men who are waiting for me.'
   'What a foolish princess, the same old girl,' - thought the general as he replied, 'You are unlike me, no meekness, no humility. I can't take you either. You have not changed. But please, at least realize about it, I pray, in the end that you can dwell in the right place o woman.'
   The general watched the woman walking away with pride and anger as his mind was occupied, 'There she goes again, choosing to be a slave and die a severe death, not choosing freedom and live forever.


   Thoughts for the Day:
   * It is wiseful to remember everyday that we human beings are a very small, very tiny thing in the endless heavens around us.

   ** Humility opens The Gate of Righteousness, of God.
        Truth is The Way.
        Love is Life.
        Willingness takes one as it is the feet.

   *#* Whoever or whatever you may be,
           Remember, honesty, humility and the love of Truth are the only three characters that attracts God The Father Above, The Omnipotent, The Creator of All.

   *#*# Don't blindly follow.
             Rather than following a path which end one do not know, it is better to follow a path which end is known. And the end of following me is no end.

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A Woman's Load, Prevention of HIV/AIDS and Solution for Infected Persons

   Somewhere in a gathering place some days ago, I met the beautiful woman again who have become my friend. We have talked about few things and it had appeared to me that she was just fine as she appears to be.
   But the fact was that she had never told me her deep heart's feelings, and that was evident on that day when she opened to me a little bit more and poured out her heart's secrets.

    As usual we use to meet in a public campus where there are different rooms including private rooms for two on which they share whatever they wanted for each other. Though we had to sign our names for entry it is also a place where suspicious mind peeks to the people secretly.
   That day she must have sang a song somewhere, about one having secret love, and she told me about that few minutes after we entered the room.
   'Who could it be?' I asked her.
   She smiled, 'Maybe you think its unluckiness.'
   'Would you just say it please, its so a luckiness, who is it, is it?'
   Again she smiled, 'Truly nobody but for a woman friend.'
   'How unusual it is,' my eyes were wide opened as I continued to ask whether I know her friend or not.

   She told me that I would just know her friend as she too have a place in the building, and she was also a widow.
   I did not know who she was talking about, so I mentioned names and asked whether they were the one she was talking about.
   The replies were 'no,' then she told me her name and explained that she was next to her place.

   I was confused and did not get it right, so I end up asking her honestly, 'Or do you both have romantic relationship to each other? They said there are many women and men having same sex relationship these days.'
   'Yea, but not us,' she paused as if she was in stress. 'A thing, my friend?' she continued but silence filled the time and space until some words came out, 'The way I am...' This time it seems she was stopping the tears that were trying to pushed out by her deep emotion, 'I so feel nostalgic but I dare not sin, and I've never thought about romantic friend, my mind is so wearisome.'
   'I don't mean any offence, do you mean she have a secret romantic friend?' I replied.

   She was lying on the bed and I was also doing so, sometimes I took out a cigarette and smoke it as we converse to one another.

   Maybe she did not hear about what I was asking clearly as she ended up replying, 'I dare not have a romantic friend, no one would like me, a friend of my husband has told me that everyone would be afraid of you who is a widow.' She confided to me?

   I felt some anger at the words or teaching of her husband's friend but replied calmly, 'He was simply saying it. You will find many who liked you and even who wanted to marry you, and also people who would like to spend time with you just like me,' I laughed a little bit.

   'I felt so tight deep inside, I'm not joking okay, I trusted you firmly that I'm just sharing it with you, hope you don't mind it.'
   'I don't mind it, and I'm not kidding either. If I were born to get married,' at that moment I recalled Mohammad the self-proclaim prophet of God but not in reality as he was just meeting the Devil, Satan  who disguise Himself as Holy Angel and tells him false teaching which was mixed with some truth and commanded him to spread it even by violence, but I continued, 'I would have married some of you,' I laughed. 'Keep on sharing to me dear, loneliness vanished when we have romantic friend or someone to spend time with. I'm telling you what I know.' I know what I'm saying and its true unless we have such a wisdom that loneliness and anything related can't destroy or disturb our self when normal.

   'Yea, but sometimes I feel so hard...' she looked away. I know the main reason is because she had lost a husband.
   'Open yourselves and you will surely find someone who would want to marry you. Remember what Jesus said, there will be no more marriage, so if you want a husband open up yourself.' I remind her that knowledge because I don't want her to keep hope in hopeless and false teaching that is, the death went to heaven and watched us after they die.
   'But if you don't want to or trying not to get into second marriage, keep your faith in God and you will be blessed,' I continued but I wanted to know what's hard she was feeling, then I asked, 'What's hard? Are you still in your husband house, I mean in your husband parent's house?'

   'Yes, and they don't allowed me to go home. I feel hard because I'm so alone,' she looked at the floor, 'My husband was their only son.

   I felt some heat deep inside, 'You are a human being and I understand you, here let me advice you: we see in the Bible that the wise and those who understand about human beings either seek a husband for their widowed daughter-in-law or let them go home. Since your parents-in-law are not wise, let your parents or kinsfolk tell them that they are taking you back home as you are a human being and that you could want a husband, and let them take you home.... or just tell them that you are going to visit your parents and never go back.'
   I wanted to make her understand about what happened after death because I used to see her, according to how I perceived, crying mostly because of the false teaching she was taught. And I also wanted her to understand this life so much that I could not stop myself from speaking, thus I continued, 'We are going to meet up in heaven with the death is just an unproved belief, even if we meet again in the next resurrection we are not going to get married as we do on earth.'
   I didn't know whether she would understand what I was saying but I so hope that she understood about it, even if she didn't I hope she would asked me questions.
   So, I continued to tell her as there were still many things that I wanted her to know, 'Just because your late husband was their only son there is no law that must keep you in hardship. I know you love him but, beautiful, you can't call him back, neither you can't guarantee that he would be saved and inherit eternal life in the next resurrection nor nobody can guarantee that. Therefore, walk toward the front, fear not I will always be with you as my Father God is always with you.'
   I told her that because I clearly know that nobody went to heaven after they die. Everyone, every kind of men no matter priests, lawyers or text collectors, believes that their loved ones got the fortunate destiny or went to heaven and watching them over after they die. Considering such false teaching is true, then who will go and be punished in hell after the Day of Judgment lol. What a deceitful joke it is. The world is truly being deceived in all ways by the Clever Serpent called Satan the Evil.

   Maybe she was clear about what I have told her as she ended up asking me other question, 'My friend... tell me, they said she who have lost a husband keep on losing it? So horrific.'
   My heart was at heat again but calmly I replied, 'They were simply saying it, its written nowhere. Even in bible, are there no widow but very successful later, was it Ruth also one?'

   I felt that she needed a friend and someone who could relieve her from her hardship, so, that night I continued to decide to spend more hours with her without leaving her alone to do some other thing that waited for me.
   She did also asked me some other questions and tells me her feelings, like what about my son if I take another husband? I don't have any boyfriend, even if I am to have a romantic friend again I don't know what to do. Would they love my son? Sometimes I thought that I was going to be mentally deranged. There is an end for words with two children of different fathers?
   And I end up saying, 'You would take a husband who love your child, and you would also stop yourself from having more children by taking medicine. If you have a job and have income your husband would respect you and would dare not love not your son. It's your life, it's your choice. Here I am, your underanged mind. If your parents-in-law keep you as their only daughter they would surely understands you.'

   For the another time, we looked at each other, and that time I had a thought going on my mind, 'she may have kept some secrets which she had not told me. If that was true I could have said words that hurts her,' I thought.
   I remember another girl who had confided to me about her feelings and secrets, so maybe this my friend have the same case I thought, thus I told her, 'If there's something on which I miss to know you I'm sorry, do not hesitate to tell me about that okay. I wanted to continue helping you if I can.'
   'Of course, I have many things to say,' she replied like an honest and courageous lady.
   I was glad on her reply as I turned toward her, 'Keep on saying, your servant listens to you.'
 
   'Next time in a new chapter, okay. If I tell you all now you would not want to talk to me anymore?'
   'Come on, try me?' I said but there was silence for few minutes, and things seems to be complicate when she told me, 'I trust you, I was just kidding, I'll go for a check-up understand me for a while.'
   She looked as if she can't be stopped, and silently she went away as I told her not to worry, and tried to strengthen her by saying sweet words and also that I'm with her too.

   It took two days until she have enough time to spend with me for hours in the room, she was my friend and we used to meet in that room to talk to one another and relieve ourselves, nothing more.

   When we meet again in the room, she did not look as usual as she said, 'I wanted to tell you about the love my late husband left for me..'
   Remembering our old conversation I could perceive what she tried to mean and I felt some heat in my heart but not against her as I could not agree nor accept the way she tried to deliver her problems which she got from her late husband without choice nor information.
   'It's your choice,' I said, 'If you don't want, do not tell me okay.'
   'Yes, its not great but understand me okay.'
   I replied, 'I understand you, if my thought is right I've known about it. Say it, your servant listens to you.' She did not reply me for couples of minutes and I thought she was stuck in words, so I added, 'It's all your choice my dear, so you don't mean to have a husband again?'
   Then she replied, 'I'm not standing in a ground where I could get married,' she was silent for a few second and cried, 'I'm dangerous!'

   I understood what she was telling me indirectly and I felt sympathy for her, and the more is on her less understanding or knowledge which gives her more distress, 'Not dangerous, it's because your heart is so good. If you were dangerous, people would die even when they see you. But that does not happen, and that means you are not dangerous or deathly.'
   I also told her indirect on how she could find a shoulder to lean on, 'One should find someone alike, if you google search about widower dates or for fever, fever dating site or for loose motion, loose motion dating site everything is available these days.' I hope she understood what I was trying to tell her as I added, 'Just take a step and you will eventually find that it is not that heavy.'

   'One thing... my late husband was HIV+, that is why day after yesterday they tested me and they told me I have to take medicine...My...' she appeared that her heart was broken and could not continue her words.
   Tracing back all the conversation we have had and the things others have fed her on to believe, I felt some anger to those people and even to her own husband as he had infected her whom he called love. I felt some anger against her too as she thought that the infection she got from her husband was the love he left for her. And my mind was filled with thoughts, 'How the hell could she consider that way, how the hell could she think that her husband loved her? How foolish is she to be deceived, and how foolish is she to have been burdened herself as a faithful widow for her late husband and stop herself from being free as a single woman?'
   I tried my best to take her out of the darkness she was sitting and sometimes crawling as I thought she needed a new shoulder to lean on.
   Thus, I ended up telling her, 'Yes it is, but even if those people wanted a partner , they seek for it and find it.' Dating sites for such kind are also many, for example personals.poz.com and hivpassions.com, etc. I told her one.

   'Solution is one of my areas of expertise, I'll find a solution for you,' I said it in my mind. Then, after many days, I asked her that I wanted to make a fictional post inspired by the conversation between me and her, as we continued to meet in the place and talk as we want as good friends. I thank her and blessed her when I got the reply, 'Of course I agreed, if it happens to be a blessing for others it would be grateful.'
   But, before that I told her not to disclose it to everyone but to seek a partner on such sites I've mentioned above. While I was saying that I saw that she never looked up to reply nor reply me, then I realize she must have an emotion meltdown when she told me about the result of her blood test and ended it with the word, 'my.' 'What a fool am I?' I said to myself.
   And, to help her overcame and came back from her emotional meltdown and make that a temporary emotional breakdown, I continued to talk to her with some regrets, 'We can keep on sharing to each other. Why? Here I'm always for you, to help you in any way I can help. If there are things on which I hurt you, please forgive me.'

   Then she looked up with restrained tears beneath her eyes, 'You did not hurt me...life, you know...' I could perceive that its not easy to talk for her at that moment, '...sometimes I wanted to die but I'm afraid...Its so dreadful.'
   She also told me, 'I don't want others to be infected from me... and I don't have a desire to get married again... how much I've suffered, you know? He always have another romantic partners and used to spend nights somewhere but I simply bear it.. before he died he was bornagain.' I could see confidence and pain in her eyes, 'I'm happy that you exist, since I can share my heart feelings, I'm vacanted eventually.'

   I believed all the thing she had told me including the last words for I'm a human being too and I've began to know how human beings are vacanted by or free from emotional hardship based on experiences.
   But I know one thing for sure, and that is, she would be occupied by the same hardship as she is a human being and still living in an imperfect world.
   Of course, since we are human beings and living in an imperfect world the same thing that gives us stress used to trouble us again and again, and it will continue to be so because the enemy of mankind is the same Old Serpent known as Satan the Evil, Dragon the Devil.

   I know if my friend have a partner she would continually be free from most or main of the emotional hardship including that which she cannot get from just a friendship with or from me to whom she had shared her unwelcomed and unwanted deep and hard feelings.
   Therefore, here is the solution for HIV/AIDS infected persons on finding a partner, making friends, partying, etc. more easily than as it is today. This solution will also help much in preventing HIV/AIDS from spreading.

   Prevention and Solution Related to HIV+ and Patients

   Law against Offensive Practice
   Noticing what my friend as in the above story had gone through its good to know that there is a law, and it should be worldwide, against transmission of HIV consciously and intentionally, and that it is a registerable case and punishable offence unless the other person agrees with it.
   Anyone knowing someone spreading HIV+ should register a case in order to prevent one's fellow men from infection and wipe out HIV/AIDS from the face of the world. Partner of such kind should not hesitate to register a case against their partner who carelessly spread it too as it concerns lifetime infection because medicine that can cure it is yet not found. Likewise, more laws should be made to prevent other STI from spreading.

   This law is necessary to deliver effective prevention programs, if not some infected person would end up spreading the virus/disease without care and love.
   For example, how many people would have been infected by the like of my friend's late husband? How sadful and hurtful it is to be HIV/AIDS infected person without choice, we have perceived that in my friend's story.
   Therefore, the law is so necessary to bring immediate or fast spreading awareness of HIV/AIDS to the majority if it cannot reach all, and also necessary to stop infected person who are careless or having bad intentions for his/her own fellow men.

   Yet discriminating, bullying and defaming infected person should not be lawful, there should also be a law that criminalize people practicing and involved in such evil deeds which is sometimes (according to its intensity) equivalent to spreading HIV/AIDS and STI. It would take full page to complete writing on this law.
   To prevent such evil acts, the uninfected people should also be well educate on do's and don'ts.

   Help and Save POZ and Prevent HIV/AIDS
   As we all know everyone need someone, and also the nearer the better, infected person do also need someone to lean on to. In fact, mostly their need for someone is more than those uninfected as infected persons were already attacked by virus which is for the rest of their life unless a cure for it is found, and it is easy to be depressed easily for such kind of men. But it would be hard for them to find among people who are yet uninfected. We can perceive that if we have experiences like that or are in times of hardship or sickness.

   For some good people like my friend who don't want to infect others, it would also be more hard to find someone who is not alike and willing to be at risk or something like that. I really admire my friend and also other people like her. For I know, it is an endless wisdom and love when one wants not and keep not others at risk, including to HIV infection.
   But there is nothing to worry about, there is always a way and also a better way. It is also better to find someone alike in all ways.

   Therefore, as there are support groups or organizations that deals on subject related to HIV/AIDS in most cities and towns there should also be an organization or one, if not all, of the existing organization  in all cities and towns that collects together the details of infected persons from every clinic, hospital, organization, yes from anywhere possible. Then the concerning organization should contact them up, advocates and counsels them on having someone alike as partner for a good reason that is stopping transmission of HIV/AIDS in all ways, and introduced them to other infected persons and act as a voluntary dating and marriage medium.
   How many POZ would be saved and benefited from this undertaking, no one knows unless it is undertaken. How many POZ would there be in a city and town that roams around looking for hope or miracles, or sat at home knowing not what to do, no one knows unless organization for help and save POZ and prevent HIV/AIDS in all ways is undertaken. Or if this is not undertaken how many people who could be saved would be infected within few years. I got some news that HIV/AIDS is spreading fast, and I don't disbelieve that, so I wish the above ways for prevention be considered seriously and undertaken by WHO, Governments and also NGO's and individuals including the infected persons.

   That organization should also organize weekly or monthly gathering/parties and other recreational meetings and activities to enhance the life of infect persons as well as a chance to make friends and even meet someone special which one may secretly looked for, so that they can continue see and experience life as it should be.
   It would also be great if the organization make a free worldwide meeting/dating site for all, based on the personal detail they collect, and invite each one of that. That way, one can find someone he liked somewhere else if one do not find in the city, town or village one lived.
   Such things would greatly help in prevention of HIV/AIDS, not only that but it would also greatly help infected persons from boredom, loneliness, hopelessness, tiredness of life, etc. and also prevents them from the possibility of committing suicide and any other negative actions that can come out from loneliness, hopelessness, tiredness of life, etc.

   If there are some people who would like to continue to be single, then love God and obey His Commandments, that way you would not be single for nothing. That's the best way to be single, as it is also for couples, to love God and obey Him that means keeping His Law of Love.

   Save A Child, Save the World
   I wonder what a great love uninfected people (including Doctors, Researchers, World Health Organization, etc.), who are working for the prevention of HIV and infected people have. Its because of them that we came to know, according to information on wikipedia, HIV can be infected through sexual contact,exposure to infected body fluids or tissues, and from mother to child during pregnancy, delivery, or breastfeeding (known as vertical transmission). There is no risk of acquiring HIV if exposed to feces, nasal secretions, saliva, sputum, sweat, tears, urine, or vomit unless these are contaminated with blood.
   I believe most people know about that and also how to prevent from it compared to the past few decades. If the world and the infected persons really wants to free the world from it the following must be passed.

   As much as the dedication and love uninfected workers gives for the protection of HIV/AIDS and support infected persons, the infected people should have and give it too, even more than that because the responsibility to free the world from HIV/AIDS is greater in the hands of the infected people. Therefore, one of the most important thing for infected couples is not to conceive and have children. If we really want the world to be free from HIV/AIDS that's how it must start, no risk when we can avoid. That is love not only for the world but for the unborn children.
   It is an endless wisdom and love to be able to perceive how thoughtless and cruel it is to have a child just because of one desires without any second thought for the child. It is foolishness and an absence of love when one decide to risk and have a baby without any care for the baby's life as he/she could be infected from before or after birth though modern knowledge can reduce rates of transmission.
   Therefore, infected parents should be wise and full of love enough before they decide for themselves. 
   Its better to love the unborn child and make him face not life which parents themselves feels difficult to face, experience and tries to go through with the infection and the challenges (like stress, unwelcomed and unwanted emotions) it gives.
   Anyway, if they want a child they can adopt one who need love. That's a great love, a great work of love.

   More than the desire to have a child, the desire to save a child should be greater. More than the desire to live in the world, the desire to save the world should be greater.
   More than desire, love should be greater. More than selfishness/self-love, love for the world should be greater.
   If that is so, couples would end up using contraceptives or preventing pregnancy and not keep their child in risk. That is love, a love for unborn child and also the world. If not, there is no point at all.

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